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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

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  • By assigning top priority to your friendship: You ask yourself, "how important is my friendship?" Why do you say you don't have time for friendship? but you find time to do other things. If you really want to do something you sure will do it. If really you want to nurture your friendship you will. It will only take time and effort because good, enduring friendships don't just happen. It takes time to build lasting friendships, yes. And you must know that the time you invest in your friendship with your partner is time worth spending and spent well.
  • Cultivating transparency in your relationship: when we are honest about who we are to ourselves we can be a better friend. Only our willingness to open about who we are that alone encourages trust and openness on the part of the other person. My advice to you is that you have and must be yourself in your friendships.
  • By daring to risk talking about your affection: Don't hesitate to show your love. Even if it means taking risk to share your affection. Especially men always want to know that their partners love them, same with women- always wanting affection because they are always emotional.
  • By learning the language of love: sincerely speaking we need to learn how to say I love you. Most of us found it difficult to say this three powerful words that seldom the heart. But mind you not only saying this but also prove it with sincere love gesture. For the women you can show your partner that you love him through buying him pleasant gifts like shirts, etc and remember to make it romantic by saying just another way of saying that I love you. Men do same.
May I remind you that gift makes a way, it's a true sign of love. Little acts of kindness are powerful and effective ways to strengthen your friendship with your partner. Such thoughtful acts show that you don't take your partner for granted. There are certain rituals I may not be revealing to you now but later. But one thing I must remind you is, always express in the language, the words, actions that your partner understands. And know what is best that communicates to your partner the love you have.
  • By giving her freedom:  always make sure that your words and actions don't discourage her and keep her from growing and developing in her different areas of life. Your partner needs to have her own money so she can feel she doesn't have to come to  you all the time to ask for financial assistance. And she needs to establish credit so should something happens to you, she will have this vital tool to place- help. It's true that many men fear losing their freedom, and their women can easily make that fear a reality- so painful.

Know this that whatever the season of your life, know that a friendship that is tended and nurtured will endure. Being a good friend makes your relationship more enjoyable one.
Always encourage your wife, be willing to allow for shifts in your partner's (her) friendship with you. This is very important.

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