Love without Communication Can't Build A Relationship

I know this statement would be very hard for most of us to swallow but it is a crystal clear truth. But if you still doubt the possibility this article would sure put you through

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Love Without Communication 

This is going to surprise you about what men and women want in communication. Every partner should know what men and women are looking for in communication so that they won't encounter poor communication or communication breakdown in their relationship: meanwhile being aware of your mate's general needs in this area will help you better communicate with her. Love is better when there is no communication breakdown. Communication is very important and keystone of every relationship. When you think that you love someone or your partner and you lack the communication ethics or skills then that relationship is soon going to weary. Men want four things in communication

Sincerity: they want to know that the topic is important to the listener.

Simplicity: men want simplicity. They want to hear the simple facts and get to the point.

Sensitivity: they will open up better at the right time and the right place. 

Stability: they want to keep their composure and not fall apart during communication. 

On the other hand, women have four wants in communication—

Attention: they want their mate's or partner's full attention when they speak.

Agreement: they want no arguments to break down the walls between them and their mates.

Appreciation: they want their mates to value them and their role.

Appointments: they want their mate to honour the time and place for communication.

Here are some secret tips that most couples or partners apply that keep their relationship to move gorgeously.

Willingness to change: tomorrow is always a new day. No time is late to make it up in your communication and change your communication pattern. If you have failed already in your pattern of communication. This is time...

Ok to disagree, but not to disrespect: always maintain respect and honour for your mate when communicating your differences. Do not belittle, slander, and even in a heated exchange learn not to attack your partner.

It takes effort to communicate: it is one thing to decide and another to act on your decision. So when you decide to communicate better, beware that your decision is only the beginning. It takes a whole lot of effort from both parties to grow as good communicators because communication is a matter of will and effort or work.

Don't make your partner/ you don't second guess your partner in the communication: Make them feel involved, important and see their conversation sensible. You don't second guess your partner. Learn to sit on your hands, keep your mouth shut, and hear your partner out, even if it takes several hours or a whole lot of time for her to communicate. Allow her to talk and don't rush or put words in her mouth.

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