In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first
The heart is a delicate part of the system when the heart fails the whole parts fail.
Sleeping in the cold alone when an arm to cuddle is missing those lonely nights. Love could be wicked when you fall in love with the wrong person. Indeed be careful to hold your heart; give it to someone that deserves to have. When given to the wrong person they misuse it to be broken into pieces. Be careful not to love the wrong person.
Who You Have Given Your Heart And Who You Should Give It
Who have you given your heart, is he or she the right person? Who you dream about is he or she the right person? Who you put your interest in and most times act intoxicated loving him and looking so obsessed whenever you see him or her, are they the right persons to trust your heart in their care?
Most times we keep making same mistakes repeatedly and unconsciously, no one has control over their emotions and love doesn't know big or small it happens involuntarily from the subconscious mind and everyone is a victim vulnerable to it.
To know that you have given your heart to the wrong person, check their attitude toward you. Check how they talk to you. Check if they have respect for your feelings toward them. Check if they care about you. Check how they talk about you in your absent. Makng the above critical evaluation, and analyzing the outcome means you have told yourself the truth. If the evaluation turns negative on the end then you have been lying to yourself.
The worse you can do to your heart causing it to be traumatized is when you lie to yourself, not always being sincere and keep lying to yourself refusing to accept the fact that they lack the above criteria as qualities of love to show they are loving.
To be sincere to yourself no need lying to yourself anymore and pretending, just walk away. Remember you walk in love, you don't fall in love—they are two different things. So you should always have your pride and don't make them feel they have or own you. Always have this in mind...
We must keep moving.
We must keep going.
If you can't fly, run.
If you can't run, walk.
If you can't walk, crawl but
by all means keep moving...
Meanwhile, don't make it look like your life depends on that one person who doesn't give a damn about your existence. Who wants to football you, kicking you around without you benefiting anything from them.
Nobody has the right to influence you without your consent. Disapprove every foul play and disappoint the player. Learn to walk away when your relationship is not fruitful, when all you gain is insults and abuses you try to stick stock on it because you feel something strong for them but the moment you realize you are the only one trying to make it work here, after all they feel nothing for you staying persistently and persevering shamelessly means you're making a fool of yourself and stooping your pride very low.
You have everything, there is someone out there that will pick you up and value you just they way you are. Don't force yourself on who doesn't want you. You are the best of yourself and who you should love is someone who is the best of themselves. And not who is the shadow of oneself because they have no destination and don't know what they want. You should love someone where two of you would tango. Someone who would reciprocate your love and make you feel relaxed and happiness around them.
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