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In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

Living Positive Is Not Enough

Looking for how to know the things that somebody needs to understand about people. Yeah, knowing what people need and want is the key to understanding(them). And if you can

understand them, I tell you you can influence them and impact their lives in a positive way. If we were to boil down all the things we know about understanding people and narrow them down to a short list, few things are involved;









Everybody desires to be somebody. There isn't anybody who doesn't want to be somebody with great significance. Even people with low ambition always want to be regarded highly by others. It's quite unbelievable how a little dream can impact your life. The truth is that everybody wants to be regarded and valued by others. Meanwhile, everybody wants to be somebody. It will shock you to know why people do the things they do. Once you get this piece of information as part of your everyday life you sure would gain incredible insight why people do the things they do. See also temperament

Believe me if you treat every person you meet as if he or she were the most important person in the whole world, you will be communicating that he or she is somebody to especially you.

Showing others that you care isn't always easy, yeah.









People are illogical, unreasonable and self centered (selfish) love them anyway. One thing is sure—clear mind.

If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives but still do good anyway. 

If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies—yet you have to succeed anyway.

The good you do today will perhaps be forgotten tomorrow—hey friend still do good anyway.

Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable—be honest and Frank anyway. 

Amazingly, the biggest man with the biggest ideas can he shot down by the smallest man with the smallest mind—still think big anyway. 

Funnily, people favour underdogs but follow only hot dogs—still fight for the few underdogs anyway. 

Shockingly, what you spend many years building may be destroyed overnight—still build anyway. 

Unpredictable human. People really need help but may attack you if you help them—fight to help them anyway. 

Always give the world the best you have and you will get kicked in the teeth—still give the world the best you have anyway. Don't compromise and don't mince action.

Know that if better is possible, then good is not enough. Living positive is not enough, you have to act it. Read also Work it out

Reminder:

Wanting to help others and become a person of influence, keep smiling, sharing, giving, and turning the other cheek. That is the only right way to treat people. Besides you never can tell which people under your influence are going to rise up and kick off to make a hug difference in your life and that of others' lives. Remember the people you see on your way up are same you going to see on your way down.

Always be selfless and live aright to make a difference and change this generation. You can do it with your intelligence quotient.

IQ does the magic.

Keep staying safe 

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