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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

When the going gets tough













When people gossip and condemn you as if you were evil or you have done the worse: though you feel rejected but don't ever let it weigh you down, overlook and move on.

People are always out to weigh you down and keep you drained that you become confused and hate your existence. They want you to feel dejected and rejected and build or begin to develop or drown yourself in feeling of self hatred. Remember self love helps you achieve your goals.

Here is the medicine to heal every gossip wound:


Behave before them that they are not able to pull you down.
Be strong within you and say to yourself I know they know I am so unique and carry God's grace so they want to weigh down my morale of working my purpose towards success. 

Never gave their attitude a thought least you begin to give them room to succeed in destroying your built potentials.

Work tirelessly toward exploit to ceases their mouth and end up leaving them in awe of your success. 

Make the feeling disarm and shame them that they are not able to destroy your future.

Instead rekindle yourself, restrategize, do what would suit your vision accomplishment. Set your purpose ablaze, inflame in achieving your purpose.  See alsoDo you have a reason for being?

Always show you are strong willed. Let your heart not slumber in working ahead.

Don't allow their bad influence to affect you at all. Over influence them with your powerful and overdose influence.

You're always at the peak to take your vision off every hook of distraction.

People's plan is to leave you shattered and frustrated but only focus is what it takes to succeed.

To give up is the last resort of failures but you are a success why considering giving up? See also,
Do you really have to give up?


Don't ever worry your head over what people gain to see you frustrated and flustered. Don't put in your mind to think out what people gain to see you in pain and distress.

The earlier you know that people are out to kill people's vision, mission and purpose because they think you have something they never had.

One thing you must know is that you don't sell your vision. Again, you kill it when you malfunction it. When you allow people's ill attitude toward you to manipulate you by influencing you negatively with their vision killer pills, then you're ready to give up your dreams for them.

You let your purpose be drained by listening to what people say about you, by allowing feeling of discouragement overwhelm you. Dont live in a shackle because others want to woe you. Courage, determination and perseverance, See this 
Focus is all you need to succeed

The time you give out to consider people's unfair attitudes toward you is the same time you will use to think out what and how to manifest your purpose to keep them hostage in wasting their own purpose. Leave them lavishly spending their purpose achieving time in polishing and shining your purpose to fame. See this, You need discomfort to succeed

See also, "humility works success"

The most important of all, if really you want to succeed in life stay humble. You will be surprised how kings and honourable men connect to have just a handshake with you. Act like a fool to win potential people your side but be wise in your thinking.  
See also, "Your thoughts"














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