How to win others your side

Originality matters.

Don't be imitation. Stop imitating.  Always be you. This is the age where people are conditioned to look out for ‘perfect’, yet they walk and live on others' footprint. The best is self love, when you love yourself you will have the courage to be yourself. Endeavour to be you, be real and not fake things about yourself to please others or make them feel awe and or to respect you. Just because you think it is the "in thing" you want to fit into society’s image. Everyone is doing, you don't want to stand alone. All this thoughts won't take you anywhere.

The problem we have is imitation and living on the footprint set by others. Authenticity is what makes you original and different from others and their usual way of doing things. Be sincere, appreciate who and whatever you are and the Almighty will open doors for you which you never imagined before. He who doesn't know his left and right has no place. Because he is neither here not there. Living down to the earth attracts many to seek counsel from you.
When you do things, join the queue because others do, you only ends small.

People who standout are always outstanding, only their integrity designs their personality and makes all their activities and actions unique giving them charismatic ends.

Don't ever imagine being another person simply because he is famous or more beautiful, handsome or more successful.  That's your mere imagination it is not true.  See also, "what you believe makes you," we are our thoughts and our thoughts end up taking us far or near in life. Consider this statement, "think big and become bigger, think small and become smaller" Remember everyone is born a winner.  You have all it takes to be great person in life.

What relieve us of our glory here on earth:

Poor gift manifestation: this is the major dream killer. You can achieve your dreams when you don't or you can't or you have not manifested your gift. See also,  "dream killers and destiny achievers"

Observing solitude helps us to put our mind together. To calculate and nurture productive ideas. To be yourself and know your destination gives you the more confidence you need. The quieter you become, you gather momentum, confidence whispers, insecurity roars; fear is a deadly killer of confidence. Confident people are not attention seekers, they don't look out for who to love and appreciate or applaud them for their deeds. They are focused. Right frame minded people. Don't bother about what people say about them, how people feel about them, how people see their actions. Confident people are not ready to read your thoughts about them. They are always there to do the right thing and serve others their gifts. They always thrive to fulfilling their purpose.

The time you use to make people notice you or seek for others accolades is the much time you need to act fast and produce footprint that will guide others. Then you will see how your mere presence speaks loud enough for the world to see your glory. It is only the insecure ones that are the loudest, drawing most attention to themselves. Why? Because their power is only in their tongues and voices not in actions. Talk less and act more. Let your success speak for you.

                     



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