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In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

What Influences Negative Aspect Of Anger

Many things influence negative aspect of anger. Are you an angry person? Do you display your anger in an active or a passive way? Or have you been an expert in displaying your anger in both

active and passive forms? Read also, What triggers the active and passive forms of anger. The negative aspects of anger are influenced by the following factors—

  • Our temperament and body chemistry
  • Our clouded and warped old sin nature 
  • Personal desires, demands, and expectations 
  • Positive and negative modeling from our family of origin 
  • Positive and negative personal experiences and interpersonal relationships 
  • Uncontrolled outside forces
Learning to deal with anger takes two basic tracks:

  1. Dealing with anger before you become angry
  2. Dealing with anger after you have become angry.
To deal with your anger before you become angry is preventative maintenance. It is learning how to identify and stop anger before it takes control. 

Anger has the power to control your thinking process unless you keep it in check. If you are angry with someone or something, it can become an obsession. Anger can make you restless.

Anger can keep you up at night. It can ruine your health and destroy your relationships. Anger can cost you your job.
Anger can become part of people's life, that's a way of life for some people. That's very bad. Take a moment to measure your anger and learn how to control your anger before it controls you.

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