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In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

Commitment In Relationship

We have talked about many relationship tips on how to build a healthy relationship and today we are going to be looking at how to be committed in your relationship. In a committed relationship

it matters what the other person wants to do and where they see themselves in the future. Being committed to your relationship doesn't all mean committing your body or sleeping with your partner as unmarried couple, meanwhile there is more to this. It's only married partner (wife) that is supposed to submit to her partner (husband) completely. It is called total submission. She has to be submissive with her body, soul and spirit. You get that right, yeah.

When I'm talking of commitment in relationship it simply implies two people in a relationship whether married couple or unmarried but in a relationship; it could be cordial relationship for  the unmarried couple or intimate relationship for the married couple, where the partners are totally involved and intensely engaged being supportive and communed in running the affair of the relationship to make sure it works well. They try to make sure that everything goes down well with each other.

In this case no communication breakdown. The partners are overly concerned, focused and involved:

Being Willing To Walk Your talk

One thing leads to another, it happens. It is one thing to talk and another to walk it up, you get that? A single act of yours can make a positive turn around in your relationship. One thing that turns your partner (female) on and signals that you truly love her is doing what you say you are going to do. Read also Importance of having integrity in relationships. Only few things that you may see irrelevant that can turn a woman off more than when you say one thing and do another. Remember that you are being held by your word, that's why you have to be very careful in your utterance.

Can she trust what you say or are your words just mere hot air? That is a sign that you are committed to that relationship or not. Mind you it takes only a God fearing man to do this. Standing to their words and never let loose. It is only a God fearing man who his commitment to God would lead to his commitment to his partner. And remember commitment goes with faithfulness.

His committment not wanting to leave her to whom he has pledged his life even when his very life was at stake. Let you two share your problems and comfort together. I know that no sane being would want their partner who they so much love to be in trouble, right? so to avoid this you communicate and always try to find out what their situation is at all time. You can call it daily study of your partner's life do it if that would make and give you complete knowledge of their whereabouts. This will help you to know what is going on in their life every second and every minute.

Give Your Partner Little Break

Read also Things that being overprotective can cause in your relationship. Everything is better done moderate. You don't get too obsessed with them lest you lose them to your greatest fear. Free them up and them draw them close. Don't start up a nagging attitude to chase them away. Understanding your partner gives you idea on how to get close to their life and build and intense relationship. Being committed you mustn't show up your face at every moment to your partner. Throwing your face even at their sad mood or moment especially when they need to be left alone is totally "out of bounds".

Relationship is more than just about giving your body and throwing yourself at your partner at all times.

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